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Each week your child will learn about specific life skills to help them have a successful school year AND earn their white belt in Martial Arts!

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Marcea Stone Pugliese reviewed New England Rendokan
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Wonderful place...wonderful teacher!

Toma Oganova reviewed New England Rendokan
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My sister & I are taking karate class at New England Rendokan. This place is pretty cool. We love it!!!

Sharmila Chakravarty reviewed New England Rendokan
5
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My kids love this karate school!!! kids are getting good training from well trained karate Master in a fun filled environment .Highly Recommended!

Dori Laz reviewed New England Rendokan
5
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Highly recommended! Family friendly and passionate teacher! It's a practice we can all do together as a family. My kids and I have grown stronger inside and out, and more confident with self-defense practices.

Brian Clemens reviewed New England Rendokan
5
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Our daughter has been attending for about a year and this school has taught her so much more than karate, I highly recommend New England Rendokan

Nawal Calder reviewed New England Rendokan
5
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This place changed my life,this dojo gave me the strength to stand up for my self and my kids.I love this karate school I love the dojo.We are a big karate family.

Michele Malona Jokl reviewed New England Rendokan
5
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My boys have been attending for 3 years and we love it. Gives them confidence, discipline and self control. Not to mention helps keep them physically fit. Darryl is a great instructor and is awesome with the kids. Makes learning Karate fun, but keeps them in line when needed.

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Say Yes to Childhood

Parenting can be tricky. We want our children to be resilient, empathetic, and able to self-regulate. However, with the busyness of life, the experiences that build these characteristics fall by the wayside, and “no” becomes an automatic response. Children are continually being told what to do and what not to do. As a result, the reaction of parents for many child requests is rarely yes. And, unfortunately, this is typically because they are exhausted, don’t want to be disturbed, or simply because it has become a habit. However, parents should be saying is yes…yes to childhood, and yes to a joyful family.

 

As we would all agree, children need rules and limits. Therefore “no” is something we need to say. But the more frequently we use the word no, the more children begin to exhibit unwanted behaviors such as tantrums, talking back, and defiance. Remember…behavior is communication. And often, parents aren’t aware of how frequently they say no, and when children become disobedient, parents implement even more rules. However, this approach frustrates children and parents further, takes the joy out of the little moments in life, and suffocates children’s wonder about the world around them. Having a balance of rules and finding moments of happiness within the daily chaos will help children develop better self-regulation.

 

As parents, it is our job to create an atmosphere for our family. Finding times to say yes, enthusiastically, to our children’s requests will go a long way in connecting and strengthening family bonds. This is not about saying yes to all their requests, however. There still needs to be rules and limits. Instead, it’s about saying either “yes” or “no” consciously and turning off the automatic “nos.” By doing this, parents become more present in the moment, which helps them realize that their child’s requests are a way of connecting. Being open and flexible will go a long way in assisting children in experiencing more joy in their daily routine.

 

One of the most beneficial programs to help parents find this balance is the Parent SKILLZ curriculum created through the SKILLZ Child Development Centers. The program provides tips on becoming a better parent by implementing eight essential skills in strengthening the parent-child bond. Those include connection, attunement, patience, prompting, edutainment, nurturing, adaptability, and consistency. These easy-to-implement skills are a quick way for parents to be present with their children and have fun while finding joy in the little moments with them. By doing this, bonds are strengthened, and children become more resilient and empathetic.

 

As we engage and connect with our children, we are saying yes to childhood. Being more flexible and open to our children during daily chaos will help everyone feel happier. As parents, we must remember that there can be joy within the rules and limits that are in place. By choosing to say yes to some of your child’s requests, you express acceptance and create a more cooperative child.